Chain Letters, Miracles and Hoaxes, One and All… Don’t Be Part of the Problem
Have you been invited to participate in helping create or celebrate a miracle today by email; or maybe contribute to a new Guiness World Record, or to support a cause by forwarding an email to show your support?
As tempting as it may be to participate, or to avoid feeling guilty for not passing on email chain letters, please don�t do it! Despite the feelings of guilt that you may have in not forwarding an email from a friend (because it warns of dire consequences if you don�t, or good luck if you do!), there are too many very good reasons not to comply, and to ask them politely to stop being part of the problem.
Here are several of the reasons why I emplore my family, friends and business colleagues not to forward any kind of chain emails.
Chain email plugs up the Internet with incredibly large amounts of inaccurate or useless information, delaying information that is valuable and needed. Use the same logic as you would use if someone asked you to call 911 to find out if it is raining outside.
Chain emails can, and often do, propagate viruses. You should never click on links or attachments in unsolicited emails. Viruses have moved far beyond just infecting when you open a Word file with macros, and slowing down your computer or popping up unwanted windows. Now they can infect you just from visiting a site with poor security, or by opening an email without even clicking on a link in some cases. Then they sit and wait for commands from hackers who use them as slaves in large scale attacks, or just to harvest your personal information as you browse and enter passwords. You may never know if your computer is being used for malicious purposes until it�s too late. Always use Anti-virus and Anti-spyware software, and keep the subscriptions up-to-date. You should also install a program such as SiteAdvisor (at http://www.siteadvisor.com) which can help you identify unsafe Web sites before you visit them.
Unwittingly, people who forward chain emails can lead hackers and spammers to everyone else�s email accounts in the recipient list, including yours. If any of the people in the list of recipients has a virus on their computer, that virus can pick up your email address and send it to spammers. Without even reading the email, you will then be subjected to future waves of spam emails because the chain email was sent to you at the same time as it was sent to the infected user�s computer. Your email address may get propagated through several generations, increasing this probability exponentially. This is a major vector for spam.
Hoaxes cause a lot of unnecessary stress on people, and can even make people feel foolish. Quite often chain emails circulate with a warning of a virus that is about to hit, and how to avoid it. The only intent here is to make trouble for people. As the following article says, don�t take action on any information in an email that you can not verify �in person�. http://urbanlegends.about.com/library/weekly/aa061699.htm There are many good links on this page for learning about hoaxes, scams and chain emails.
For people who understand the many problems that chain emails cause, it is very annoying to receive them, especially from their friends. It is hard to broach the subject and is something people may even put up with, in order to preserve their friendship. It�s like telling someone they have bad breath. How do you do it in a way that shows you�re just trying to help? You can start by pointing them to this article, and the many others that try to explain and educate people, so they won�t be thought of as fools (or smelly, in the case of the bad breath).
And what of the bad luck? Or good luck? Well, what are the chances I can convince you that there�s no such thing as luck? I�m not even going to try. But just think about it. The Internet is a big bunch of computers connected by wires and radio signals. Computers have a hard enough time being compatible with each other most of the time, and are very fragile when anything changes unexpectedly. We don�t really need more excuses for the things that go wrong in our lives, do we? Complexity of everyday life is reason enough.
If none of the above convince you to stop forwarding chain emails, and ask your friends to stop, too, then read and send them a copy or link to the following �anti-chain email letter�. It is guaranteed to void all bad luck you may have caught by not forwarding an unsolicited chain email.
http://www.kith.org/logos/things/chain.html
The bottom line is, if your friends care about you and know that you care about them, they should really be grateful to be given the facts about chain emails. On top of that, most businesses now recognize the threats to their computer networks and have policies against chain emails… you could be in for some very bad luck if you don’t comply with your office’s security policies!


mroonie on 31 May 2007 at 2:06 pm #
My absolute favorite has got to be the emails that warn you about Virus X and then tell you to “download this anti-virus software now and help protect you and your computer!” or “click on this link for tips on how to avoid catching Virus X.”
And then months later some people are actually confused as to how a keylogger or other form of spy/mal ware got onto their computer.
So even though chainletters may appear to have the best of intentions, perhaps the best advice really is to just live with the unbearable pain, suffereing and guilt that comes with not forwarding a chainletter.
Annette on 14 Jul 2007 at 1:40 am #
I have actually had communication broken with some people in the past because of these stupid things! I simply refuse to condone them. I would ask politely and they would comply for awhile, then seem to forget and send them again!
I figure…. if people care anything about your feelings, then they will honor your request. If they can’t do that, then they are very self serving… and I couldn’t care less if they email. It makes me angry.
Scott on 13 Apr 2008 at 10:25 pm #
I thought you might like to know that this post is one of the most read articles on this website. I have a feeling I’ve hit a nerve here. This is something I’d like to explore further, and maybe write more about.
If you reached this post as a result of getting fed up with receiving chain letters, and searching on ways to deal with chain letters, I’d like to hear more about your situation.
Please tell me your situation (you can do it anonymously). I’m curious about how people feel about chain letters.
What story were you told?
Who sent it to you?
Have you complied with senders’ requests out of fear of bad luck? or because you feared losing friendships if you didn’t?
Thanks,
Scott